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Your spouse
or significant other: |
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1. Is offended by small
comments that once went unnoticed. |
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2. Begins taking a stronger
interest in his or her appearance or becomes obsessed with
losing weight/gaining weight. They will often join a health
club, begin body building, sun-tanning, etc. |
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3. Will begin to keep
company with a certain person or group of individuals unknown by
you. Many times, this person will be someone with whom they are
sharing the guilt with. |
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4. Will begin to be
"working late" when they seldom have in the past. |
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5. Will often lose sexual
interest in you. |
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6. Will become offended and
sometimes ask if you are checking up on them. |
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7. Will frequently have
unexplained absences. |
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8. Will make comments when
questioned or condemned such as, "Not everyone feels that
way". |
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9. Will sometimes ask for a
divorce without a reasonable explanation. |
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10. May get a post office
box and not allow you to have a key. |
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11. Will no longer allow
you to use the family credit cards or to see the bill. |
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12. Will arrive home
smelling like cologne or perfume other than their own. |
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13. Will sell or transfer
ownership of many of the family goods to prevent them from
becoming part of the property settlement. |
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14. Will begin to consume
drugs and/or alcohol. |
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15. Will lose interest in
his or her home life and children. |
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16. Will charge up all
credit accounts in preparation of ending the relationship. |
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17. Will become cold and
inconsiderate of your feelings. |
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18. Will buy a new wardrobe
or begin wearing a new cologne/perfume. |
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19. May find reasons to get
away from family gatherings on holidays etc., to wish holiday
greetings to a lover. |
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20. May begin to take
showers as soon as they return from work/going out, when they
never used to do that. |
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21. Names of strange places
will appear on credit card bills. Usually these names will
appear to be restaurants, but you can not find them in the
phonebook. Many times these are Gentleman's Clubs or
Cabarets.......AKA Nudie Bars. |
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22. Will do the laundry
when they never used to, or at a time when they normally
wouldn't. They may be trying to hide the signs of smoke,
lipstick, body fluids, etc. |
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23. Lingerie is missing
from drawers or found in the dirty clothes. |
You May: |
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24. Begin to receive hang
up telephone calls. |
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25. May find the passenger
seat in his/her car moved from the normal position. |
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26. May find a different
brand of cigarettes in the car's ashtray, or with another's
lipstick on them. |
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27. Will notice the mileage
on the car is not adding up to what it should. Too many extra
miles. |
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28. Will no longer have a
land line phone number to call him/her when out, only a cell
phone number, or pager number. They may be trying to hide their
location. |
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These are not
definite signs of a cheating spouse, but if you notice there are
quite a bit of them going on, you may want to start
investigating just for your peace of mind. |
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